“What Is This Thing Called Love?”

Not long ago, I watched a movie called Pirate Radio, and on the really great soundtrack, one of the songs in particular, really got my attention. More than that actually. It broke my heart. Partly because of the heartrending and incredibly powerful delivery by Lorraine Ellison, and partly due to it’s really disturbing theme. The… Continue reading “What Is This Thing Called Love?”

The “Near Enemies”

WE CANNOT SEE OURSELVES IN RUNNING WATER, BUT ONLY IN STILL WATER – Chuang Tzu In a recent post on the  subject of character, I suggested a practice tip to the effect that if, in conversation with person A, A is telling you something about person B, listen carefully, because you are learning a lot about… Continue reading The “Near Enemies”

Look To Your Character

During my recent travels, a lengthy obit in the Chicago Tribune caught my eye. I can’t say why actually, because I have almost zero interest in sports. Accordingly, I had never heard of John Wooden. To you dear readers who are sports fans? Well what can I say? Anyway, after reading it, I checked him… Continue reading Look To Your Character

The Same Bench

In last week’s Chron, I spotted a piece called the “People Meter” wherein reporter Trey Bundy interviewed 5 people asking each to describe their “perfect day off.”  Voila: Aaron (age 32): “That would be the Giants home opener. Maybe some garlic fries and a beer.” Joseph (age 43): “Probably at the ocean, walking barefoot. It’s… Continue reading The Same Bench

You Better Watch Out

“I keep meaning to clean my desk, but I put it off – again – I’m so bad.” These words were spoken to me today by someone I love – a lot. We all talk to ourselves this way habitually. Robert Bly, poet, author, and activist writes: “When we were one or two years old… Continue reading You Better Watch Out